Parents are always careful and worried about their kids. But sometimes they just forget that their kids have grown up and they just don’t need the same attention once you gave them. With the progress of time, you need to make sure as parents that you should not worry about each and everything. Here are the 10 things that our parents need to stop worry about.
- Don’t wake up early
Parents do not really know when kids slept after finishing the study last night. They would keep an alarm to wake up and parents do not really need to wake them up before time just because they think that early to rise is a good habit. They can take care of the waking up habits now.
- They can ensure safety
Well, kids are always aware that you care about their safety. But sometimes they should be allowed to go out and enjoy. They are grown enough and can ensure safety even if the clock has strike 11 PM. They know you are worried and they will take care of that.
- Restaurant Food is not that bad
It is okay to be worried about the street food when your kids are in school. Well, let then have some restaurant food as they reach college. It is not that bad. Most of all the restaurants serve good food, so do not worry about poor quality of food.
- Crazy friends are asset
It is not necessary that crazy friends are not good for your kids. They have grown enough and it is time to do something crazy in life as well. Friends are assets of life and let them enjoy. They can be bit crazy but they will be there for entire life.
- Dating is bound to happen
They are in college and dating should be normal. Well, you might be very orthodox but nobody knows better than them. They know their limits and they ensure that nothing crosses that.
- Let them choose what to wear
They have clothes full of the closet and they are well aware that what should they wear and what should they not. You could avoid telling them about their clothes. Don’t force them for what you think that they should wear.
- Bath Timing does not make a difference
Timing of bath does not really make a difference. They are no longer kids although you love to address them like that. They know that hygiene is important and they take a bath. But if you keep on bugging them, they will only get irritated.
- No need of Time Table now
Yes, you made them study according to the time table but that is not required now. They understand when and how to study now and you should also forget about the old time table.
- Boys can be friends too
If your girl is talking to a girl over the phone that does not really mean she is having an affair with him. Boys can simply be friends as well. No need to vigil them as detective every moment; give them some space of their own, they need it.
- Facebook has become a part of life
Nobody gets spoilt because of Facebook. The social media platform has become the integral part of life. So if your son is on Facebook that does not mean he is chatting with girls or vice versa. It has become a platform to be updated for young generation.
It is important for parents to understand their kids and try adopting the new generation.