We have a general tendency to judge people on the basis of look and behavior. But, unfortunately, it is not the right guess all the time. It is very commonly seen that we have some easy targets while doing it. Quiet people are one among them. We very easily label them as unsocial, introvert and so on. But the real story is still unknown. To be honest, they are much. more than we assume them to be. One cannot label them only because they talk less. Here are some facts that you might never know about quite people.
- Valued opinion
Only because they are quiet, does not mean those don’t know anything or don’t want to tell. It is only that they have an opinion and they don’t feel like sharing.
- They think before they speak
They are unlike many of us who just don’t bother about putting some sense to the conversation. They think many times before they eventually speak to make an opinion. But when they do, the others listen.
- They are not shy
You may tag them as shy, but they are not really. They take some time to involve in any communication and participate equally when they are comfortable.
- They love gathering
It is a common misconception that quite people don not like gathering. They equally value the company of family and friends. It is just that they don’t make irrelevant comments in the conversation just to participate.
- They are social
They are very social and mingling as well. It is just the fact that they don’t want you to judge on the nature. They are okay if we accept them the way they are.
- They are confident
They are confident enough, but they do not want to make counter views all the time. It is not about the lack of confidence or interest, it is all about relevance.
- They do not seek help
If they are not saying anything that does not translate that they want help. It is like they respect your opinion and have nothing to say more on that.
- They do not stare at you
If they look at you that does not mean they are gazing. It is just about figuring out what you wanted to tell. You have not made your point so far.
- They have great hobbies
They do have quality hobbies. It does not mean they have set boundaries and they only read books. The fact of the matter is that they love going out but with people who understand them and respect their nature.
- They are not negative
They are not at all negative. They feel happy about their life and not always depressed. Study shows that outgoing people are more depressed in numbers than quiet people.
These are all the facts that you must understand about quiet people rather than get carried away by misleading facts.